Thursday, August 22, 2013

First impressions-

Okay, think about this: you're walking towards your classroom and the first thing you see is two new faces ( imagine this is your first day of classes) What's the first thing that pops to your mind?  how old are they? How good their grates are? No. Well at least not for me. Whenever i meet new people the first thing i ask myself is: is he good or bad? is she the clown of the class? I don't know, at least not now, but still, how do we figure it out, without being insolents. Well there's three simple ways to do it. First of all you need to know their names, usually when you meet someone you introduce yourself by saying your name (obvious)
After that, just follow the next steps:
1. You can bump accidentally with that person and say something like this "Oh sorry! are you new? My name is...." that kind of stuff can work. You could also try asking their favorite hobbies and then sharing a little about yourself, not too much, just something casual.
2. After that the best thing you can do is seeing how  she develops in the clasroom, i mean, you won't want taking  this part to literally because you..... are going to look like a stalker,  and that's not a good thing, besides, you might want to keep your distance a little bit, but still interested in knowing her/him better. If you notice that she/he's a troublemaker i recommend not to get involve, becauseat at first that probably look fun, but at the end the only thing that's going to do is get you in troubles. On the other hand, if you notice she/he's kind of cool but also responsable, go for it, it might be the cause to a good friendship consequence.

3. If this don't work with you, DONT PANIC! you and me + everybody are different. This will might be helping someone out there, or this will might not,you could always try other ways to get along with people, and REMEMBER: ITS NOT THE QUANTITY OF FRIENDS , ITS ABOUT THE QUALITY http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hDZbroaQDc

1 comment:

  1. Great advice Aylin.
    You do have some grammatical errors, remind me about them for next class please.

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